New guy, hurting and needing direction

[Hurtin4certain]

Thats correct Dazed. Let go of trying to control her, focus on yourself (get into church, join a mens group, get counseling, get in the gym, sign up for a mens basketball team, spend time with your kids, go jogging, read a book).

Also, think about how you have changed since you first met your wife. What about you did she find attractive? How have you changed since then? What can you do to be the guy she first fell in love with?

H4C