Wow, sorry to hear about the accident but glad nothing was messed up and you weren't hurt.
Ok, about the myspace account...don't look at it! I know it is easier said than done. Trust me...been there done that. It doesn't hurt anyone but you. You can't control what he puts on there. Detach. He is living in a fantasy world. ...Just look at the income he put...I thought he was unemployed!
Don't push him to file for D unless you are completely ready for it. I did that and then I was devastated when I found out he had actually done it.