"We never spent any time together" (yeah, because you were on the computer for 5 hours every night)
So true!! My D13 mentioned to me about a month into our sitch that "Mommy needs to stop playing her game so much. You two lost your interaction, you need to go on a date." I kid you not, these were her words.
Amazing that a 13 year old could see that. Our counselor said "Wow, how intuitive."
This one hit home w/ me too. On my H's list of grievences was that it was the Ds and me and then him. H didn't feel apart of the family. Yet when he is at the house he spends a majority of the time on the computer, even when I'm not there. Too bad he can't bond w/ the Ds and me as much as the computer.