Well, my attorney called me yesterday afternoon. First topic was why their retainer was higher than quoted in early December. Attorney said it was because WAW is not willing to change anything in papers. WAW has no grounds to win but according to my attorney WAW is going file fault anyhow. This is same thing attorney told me month ago, but attorney said they had contacted WAW's attorney yesterday to verify this information. It was a very short conversation. Attorney recommended me contacting WAW to see if we can work on things, which is counter to me leaving her alone.
Thoughts - 1) If WAW was going to file fault why wait so long. WAW sent no-fault on 11/19. WAW and I talked on 11/28 discuss the contents and agreed that 6 of the 12 things needed to be changed. I am unsure if WAW has contacted her attorney regarding proceeding with any action. So, my attorney may be talking to her attorney with old information. 2) WAW agreed to meet again to discuss things at least 3 weeks ago, wonder if that is an option still. 3) If I don't get papers today, then I don't expect to get them until at least Thursday next week because I will have 5D. This assumes WAW is just going to be hateful and send them anyhow. 4) Seriously considering breaking darkness and sending WAW an email, instead of letter, explaining why I was unhappy before, what I am doing to be happy now, my dreams (which she shares), how my unhappiness was never about her, perhaps apologize for the things that she deems the last straws, and to say that although I am happier now and I am striving for dreams and goals they are not as important without her. I also think I should add a thought about meeting to discuss things. 5) Contacting her would break darkness, but emailing her would be something different. I imagine it just seems to her like I am ignoring the sitch by doing nothing. We have not discussed anything of merit for about a month. 6) Sister says I should fight back and make her feel my pain. I have grounds and could try to fight for 5D. I do not see how this would do anything but push her further away. But I cannot lose the war for my family and the battle for my 5D also.
