But my H has said to me that someone else wouldn't expect him to be "better", and I think where he is at in life right now, he's not "better"
It struck me because it holds SO MUCH TRUTH it seems.....H has often said he can be HIMSELF with ow....and he couldn't be that here anymore because of all the expectations...well, I guess the OP may not actually BRING OUT ANYTHING in them...they have no expectations of our spouses, therefore they do not bring out any negatives or any positives ! I always BELIEVED in H, thought he could move mountains...told him so...(maybe expected him to), I believe that I brought encouraged him to grow and be a bette person. I guess he got tired of it...and ow leaves him be, asks nothing, wants 'nothing' for NOW !!!!
Yikes, rambling...have I made my point ?
Yes, Cinders.....point made.
I see the same thing in my H. He says he can be himself with the OW also. That makes me sad really. Who was he all these years if he werent himself??
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
