This is a scary ride, I have to watch and observer W, interpret her behaviour, but not over analyse what I see. One of the reason I shout out for help is I guess I want to see if others see what I see.
Once you get into close regular contact with your W this is what you will have to do.
But remember W will be watching you just as closely as you are watching her.
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing