Hi ,

Brit I'm honoured by your response, you're a much respected guy on this board, John210 thanks for your simplistic input.

Jointly W and I can afford the TV so as we said to each other let's just bite the bullet and go for it. It seems W wants to get on with things which make her happy, long term "us" things, Pre bomb things, I wonder if she realises the implication and inferences. I'll post stuff on this board this keeps me up to date with what's going on.

W definatley seems more relaxed in her sleep, she's moving more to the middle of the bed, occasionally resting her feet on me. Even when I was in the other room she'd still cling to the end of the mattress and not move. Now its me clinging to the edge of the mattress so she doesn't think I'm trying any funny business in her sleep.

I'm getting a feeling now that W is relaxing more around me, awake or asleep.


Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing