Wow. Your W seems to be filled with a lot of hate and resentment. I can't comment on if she has any basis in her claims (obviously I have no idea) but even if she does she is just going about it in a bad way...this entire e-mail is just so hurt-filled...perhaps one day she will figure out that this is not the way to live, and she'll release some of her hate.
I hope you continue to work on yourself, and do good by your kids. It seems you're a long way from any type of civil R with your W, so just keep up what you are doing, staying detached and not worrying about the craziness that your W decides to interject into your life.
Thanks for the comments on my thread by the way.
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021