Thanks Mako,

I used this website with my first WAW we reconciled for about 6 months then ended in divorce, so i guess i have a little heads up than most. I am detaching well and living my life. The W called tonight to talk to S. I didnt answer bc i didnt recognize the number. She got a new cell number with ta new area code of the city she is living in. I called her back after S said he did not want to talk to mommy. He didnt say much was more into watching einsteins so i took the phone back and said hey, W didnt have much to say neither did I she stalled a bit i think waiting for me to say something i didnt she said well thats all i wanted i said OK she hung up. Again she needs to initiate anything with me i give her the chance by staying on the line and stalling myself for a bit so again one day at atime, and with every day it gets easier i pray that all of us can have the strength to do this its not easy but its not impossible either everyone stay strong.....

DH


Me 35
W 26
S 3
D 10 months
I have custody
Bomb 11/9/07
W PA 10/07 ended 2/08
Removed W from house 11/16/07
I filed in Nov.
D put on hold
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1268484&page=6&fpart=16