I was simply responding to your (IMHO) fatalistic suggestion that all anyone has to lose in an M or an R is money.
Nope. Not unless that is how you present it. But that is how it was presented. To me. In monecal terms. No offense to him. Thtat's what I got it down to. When it all gets to business, that is what it is.
I remember standing in my kitchen...
It all came down to money. Not what was best for boys. Just where they would be... and how much money it would save. But. I pushed it. That was me.
It all came down to brass taxes... because that is where I pushed it. That is what I got. So I got buisness. I was married to an accountant.