Most people say cheat..gone. I did before. I always told my H never hit me, never cheat..or I am gone. I think he figured I would throw him out day one, of course, I didn't at first. (he never hit me,BTW) But, it is very hard for me. I have very mixed feeling about all this. Most people do not support it. I think after all this time and a good marriage, its worth some time to see what this is all about.
