Cagz, Thanks for taking the time to read my posts! Yes, I DID gain in the end! No, my story isn't one of reconciliation; but, it has a much happier ending! Yes, when my exH decided to return, I was done. I only attempted the reconciliation because I felt I owed it to my children and to my marriage vows. But, in all truthfulness, my HEART wasn't in it anymore....I had moved on.
I wish I could tell you what is in the future for you and your H, but I cannot. All I can tell you is to not dwell on what MIGHT be, one way or the other; but, to focus on YOU! Take this time to develop yourself. Find your strengths and use them to help you grow as a woman and a person. Trust in the Lord and remember that HE knows what is best for you. And, NO, you are not a fool for not filing for divorce....to file or not file, to stand or not stand...those are personal choices.
Yes, when my exH decided to return, I was done. I only attempted the reconciliation because I felt I owed it to my children and to my marriage vows. But, in all truthfulness, my HEART wasn't in it anymore....I had moved on.
