Confusion of a WAW (Thread 5)

Hey Brit,
What are your other choices??

Worst case, I could probably stay with the ILs for a week or two, or find an extended stay hotel.

I would say one of the most importnant things to consider is if it will have an impact on your D. Would it confuse her? She's proabably young enough that it won't, but something to think about.

I don't think it would make a whole lot of difference with her, although she is becoming more aware when one of us isn't around - If we're together with D and one of us leaves, she goes CRAZY and screams none stop until we come back. I can't even drop W at a store and have her run in to get something without D having a fit.

I would jump at the chance for this, but I'm not saying that it is the right thing to do. Do you think your W has offered this strictly to get you out of a bind...or do you think she is trying to feel things out?

I have no idea what is going on with W. She's basically in a big black hole right now, so maybe it's just a guilt thing for her. Of course, she has been telling me for the last two months that she couldn't deal with living with anyone again, so maybe she's curious.

What do you want?

I just want minimal disruption to my life, D's life and W's life. I also want the time to make some good decisions - I don't have the luxury of time like W did when she was looking for somewhere and moving. She took two months (Sept & Oct) - I've got maybe 10 days