Cagz, I can tell you that I am feeling similarly. Also that DB C tells me that such ambivalence is normal and to be expected.

I don't have answers there. I have noticed some progress in our situation but H needs to do so many things to get his act together, and I am not sure if I think he can.

Looks as if we are in a similar timeframe. I am certainly going to be doing some evaluating at my year situation. I don't know if I have to make a decision then but I definitely want to do some evaluating.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D