I think it's very interesting that he's beginning his quest to become Zoo Master at the Bunny Ranch instead of the Monkey House. Since you like him best anyway, give it a shot! Seeing how you react to a different style of hand on the tiller would probably lead to some interesting self-discovery. That may be "dating with intent" to a certain extent but since you like him, it's cool.
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