I just got reading debs post. Hers was not one of reconsiliation but WOW do i feel like she gained in the end.

What I saw was that he DID return. The prediction seems to be true..but SHE was done.

I wonder is that the norm. Is that what is to come for me and my H?

I have a friend, divorced and remarried to a wonderful man....she seems adament about me getting divorced in March (that is is when the year is up) I AM not planning on filing for many reasons. AND FOR NOW I am good with that...but am I a fool?

What difference does it make if we have a peice of paper or if they are sleeping or livign with another woman? Why does it matter if we yes WE hte LBS walk forward and say "If you want me you have to come after me all over again???"

Today I really dont know. In my h's heart it is over- HE IS DIVORCED and he has found the way of the world. It is just a peice of paper.. Is it? Am I a fool?


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again