klm, i have not followed your post except for this one. the trust issue and feeling the need for H strikes a chord with me. I also don't know if I can ever trust H again (well, my H supposedly is still contacting OW via phone/email but I really don't know and he said he needs to end this slowly)

Anyway, just want to give my support. It appears that your H's timeframe is a bit short, so be prepared if he wavers a bit. Otherwise, the patience part is the toughest, not asking questions. I am struglling a lot with this. Take care.


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?