Yes, he is a philanderer

[Hurtin4certain]

Hurt,

I am also sorry for what your H decided to do. Thats horribe, I wouldnt wish your pain on my worst enemy.

Have you considered a Divorce Care group? I would recommend it. You'll be surrounded by people going through the same thing you are.

Keep in mind that your emotions are controling your actions right now. With time you will begin to regain your emotional equilibrium.

I recommend getting a free consultation with an attorney right away, H could clean out your bank account before you have the chance to do anything about it. Protect yourself.

We all care about you, hang in there.

H4C