Ya it's a tough talk, and it takes time for a guy at that age to get it to sink in. This is how you could approach it. Guys are like a car, you take the key insert into the ignition and vroom they are off and running.
Well women are more like a harley. You may have to get some carburator juice, kick and kick and kick some more. Little rev here and there, and evenutally the damn thing will start.
If he can't get that, then he is in trouble. Have you ever looked at the charts of how men and women excite and climax. Men are a like a huge ice cycle pointing up. While women build up slowly and then platue and can hang there for a long time.
I can't remember what book it was in, but the author talks about when a women gets ready for a date or night out, her sexual ritual starts from the shower on, this is what is happening with all the make up, clothes changing, looking, relooking, etc.
While guys we know exactly what we will wear, can be ready in 30 minutes and off we go. Your going to just have to teach him.
Maybe make some coupons for this or that, that he can redeem. Let him know they are only good if he redeems the coupon with at least two hours prior to action.
Or next time he starts up and is all over you. Stop him and say, you are going to take a bath first, then put on something that makes you feel good and then you will be ready. That can give you some time, and if he asks, you say you just want to be the best you can for him and be ready.
