Sorry to hear about your expenses. Have you tried to shut off heat, close off registers, in unused rooms? I have an auto set back thermostat, it's set to turn back to 67 at night, Warm up at 6:30AM, back to 67 when no one is home and 72 at 4:30PM. Good job of catching yourself when talking to H. Has H mentioned the three of you being one happy family recently? It could be he is having more contact because R with OW is out of the honeymoon stage.
I never thought my success in my field would cause her self worth to fall. With what I make, she doesn't really need to work if she didn't want to. I've tried to get her to go to school to learn something for a better job, she's not interested. I got sent to Kansas City for training once, they were having problems in another building and about to lose the contract. They came into the class to see if anyone knew anything about T-3 equipment. I looked at it found the problem, it wasn't on the prints, something I had run into and spent a lot of time on to find in my town. Super offered me a job there also.
Putting pics of kids on memory cards for W and her aunt. Kind of got me in a down mood. Thinking about the past and what it is now.
I have to talk to W to see if she is interested in the Dr. Phil thing. Think I'll see if she will have dinner with me tomorrow, if so I'll ask her at dinner.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26