LJ,

I don't think you went too far. I think you are becoming what YOU want to be and thats part of our journey here. Like you, I feel the same way about my W. I don't know if I want to get back with her anymore. Especially after what she did to the kids this holiday but I guess thats why we are on this journey to make ourselves who want to be and know that no matter what happens, we will be alright. We just have to keep moving forward and understand and appreciate both the good and bad.