once the clock is ticking and you are in divorce all expectations you have about him must end. You need to emotionally detach and expect this divorce... and live that way. And live happy and healthy with that.
I am getting better at detaching but as some of you know, I need to be reminded that all deals are off and we are d'ing no matter how much he professes his love to me.
I do have to say that I have not said one word to him about staying together in the past couple of weeks. Only that D is the only option at this point.
Originally Posted By: runningoutoftime
From everything you've described this is a guy really struggling with letting you go in spite of being completely addicted to OW.
I don't even get it... For someone who is soooooooo in love and planning his future w/ow, he sure seems to still be attached to me.
I just got my new VS order today.. You know.. for those "other guys"
Originally Posted By: runningoutoftime
And they also helped me feel better about myself after having been displaced by a woman 10 years younger and much more professionally successful than me.
Well.. this one IS 7 years younger, and about 8 inches shorter, and about 10 pounds heavier, and ... well.. we won't even go into the career thing..
Originally Posted By: runningoutoftime
Anyhow.... one thing recommended by the DBing coach I spoke with was to be mysterious. I think this was wise advice.
I REALLY need help here. I am the least mysterious girl around!
SO ROOT.. how long after filing, did your H finally figure it out??
