I suggest you go find another counselor. Go see them first and discuss what you think are issues. Including baby pressure, and even ow. Get a feel for this person's views of marriage and then take your husband. Make sure he's not going to feel attacked.

I was bummed about the Christmas present thing this year as well. Holidays suck!

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."