I like the name of your new thread! My kids and I just got back from Mexico and my son has a new favorite soup - Tostada. I like it a lot too, but dont think I can make it as good. At least we have a lot of Mexican restaurants nearby which hopefully will have this soup.
I filed today and will give my W papers next week. I still keep my rings on as a symbol that I honor and respect my marriage until it is over legally.
It is kind of hard not to have bad feelings towards the OM, especially considering he is married too. Just keep in mind that you have more honor than him and let him alone - he is a scumbag and not worth the worry. If your W and he get further along in their A, I am positive his W will find out on her own.
As for your IT question, I think a lot of people put a link back to the thread that just locked as the first item when they start a new thread. You will probably want to add the following to your signature so as to shorten it and just show "First Thread"...
