H and I own business together, still talking

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There's no more Chi Chi's in our area, i guess too many real mexican restaurants in the area. At one time it was the only one

. Come to think of it I do believe the CHi's near us closed to.

I can't say why he gives you gifts, I'm on the same side of the fence you are, but I gave my W a Christmas present to show her iI still care and hopefully when she looks at the pics on the frame she will remember the good times. I don't think you giving H a present will make him think you're pushing him to change, he might see it as you're interested in giving also, if he's the only one giving the gifts he might think you aren't interested in him. Has it been a while since you have pursued a little?

Like I say Mike something is happening with W and for the good. Honest that is the vibes I pick up from your posts and I am so happy for you. Still have a very long way to go but at least a couple bricks have fallen from the wall.
I believe guys are forced to learn better emotions control. Just got of phone with H. We are getting very very close to not being able to pay our utility and morgage bills.!! I keep heat at 59 to try and save. Back bedroom is always about 5-7 degrees less. Even slept in my clothes these really cold nights.
H will not take even a part time job to fill in. Says he is to old, fed up with life for anyone to hire him. What can you say back?? So before our conversation is over I had a few sharp words although I did catch myself and pull mez back closer to DBing. I'm going to post a seperate posting to explain H and I interhange! To long for this one. Besides there is too much good news for you to waste space on H.

I think she was shocked by the number of books I've read. I haven't read many books in the past unless they were manuals on control systems on elevators.

LOL, yes I am sure she was shocked. Not meaning this as a jab at you but. You sound like a true male, do nothing till major crisis, major major crisis. lol

Maybe H is using the cat as an excuse to call. I think the more contact you have the friendlier he will be. It's been over a year since he left hasn't it? It could be R with OW is getting stale.

Do believe he is using cat for an excuse to call. Just have sick feeling he still thinks i will work around to the three of us being, "best buds"!! grrr. lol What are we always seeing on the boards?? the WAS will not trust LBS, well this one is reverse.

Got some news tonight. I was looking at other posts about a month ago, some one had a link to Dr Phil's website. I checked it out and wrote in my situation. A researcher for his show called me tonight for some more information. after talking to me she sent me an e-mail wanting more details and information about us. She wanted a family picture of us. The only ones I have, I'm the one who is usually behind the camera, is one taken at the hospital the night before surgery and one about 9 years old. Don't know if it will go anywhere but here's to hoping. I know W watches Dr. Phil's show and respects what he does. I wrote in the e-mail W is having a crisis, confirmed by MC and is not seeking help. Talked to all the kids tonight as she wanted contact info for everyone involved to get their ok to give it to her. S25 said it would be a good thing because mom needs some help. Who knows maybe I'll be making a return trip to LA.

WOW! this is unbelievable! GOOD for you again I am happy for you. Do you have a photo of just yourself, Dr. Phil crew could cut and paste you into a group photo. Keep me posted even if you want to email private for some reason(don't want to post public info.) Ok with me should such be .
I am jealous, maybe I'll send my stitch to them. Since We are both orphans by age and my spine injury. mmmmmmmm...bet Dr. Phil could give me an eye opener about me too. I would be in need of it as well.

They came back to the restaurant at the hotel we were staying at on orders from their boss. He wanted to hire me because I fixed the problem they were having fro a month from the restaurant without looking at the controller. No offense to anyone from S Cal but I couldn't live there, traffic is way too bad and housing too high

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Your Good,Your Very Good. Take pride in yourself as you've earned it. Do you suppose W sees how much success you have had with job. Even if only in last few years and feels she lost out and her worth is zero???? Just a thought that leaped into my head.

With the dogs you got you ought to buy it by the truck load LOL. It's cold here too, 16 degrees and white death on the ground.

LOL, some times coming out of store people stare at me and BAGS of dog food. When I use to buy food at Sam's Club I'd pick up couple hundred pounds at time and people really stared. One person even ask what size dog I have.? told him, five BMDs 75-95 lbs. Looked at me like I'd dropped in from Mars. ROFL
Then one time As wheeling out Bags of Purinia dog food looked at the bags and said to myself, "what are you doing? Should be buying the stock not dog food. So went home Purinia. is owned by Nestle, swiss co. & purch. stock. It has nearly doubled.!!!

Not to brag but I generally make money in stock market and H looses every penny!!! YIKES