I gave him a gift a few days after christmas he said that it was 'rad'. I did not send him a text on new years, he said he did not receive any or send any. I looked at him and said of course you know i wanted to but you asked me not to text you and i respected that wish....yet he still made me feel bad! Why should i feel bad, he did not send me one and he is the one that walked out. Even after I gave him a gift he did not go and get belated gifts for us. He gave me 20 questions about my choice of gift for him. I felt like saying i am sure they will change it if you want!
The problem is that i want to say all these things cos i am angry but if i do it will push him further away.
Keys are to my parents house. He never knocks just walks in. think he is feeling challenged by counsellor who probes deep to see how he reacts. She pushes him and he does not like that. she suggested he have private sessions with someone and he said no. previous counsellor loved him and it was like i was getting beaten on every session. This new one does not take sides but she does not take his crap either but she is delving into the past and focussing on negatives. We have never discussed positive reasons to stay married or how baby increased pressure.
