I'm encouraging her to stay with it... as it seems that she is more interested in having her H supply her with water, rather than learning how to dig a well.
Why are you making such insulting remarks to me? And that you have no basis for as well? My H is my "supply". I can't exactly do this without him. Not everything in a M can be acconmplished by one person. That is not being selfish, or demanding, and princess-like. If my H is not going to supply me with a need that I have, than we are going to have problems. We both know it. More now than ever. You don't seem to get it at all. You're not HD so I don't expect you to. My H is not HD either but I think he is finally getting it. And also realizing...wow...he likes it too. And the sex is making us much more intimate in all areas. It wouldn't be happening without the increase in sex. I know that from our history.
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Not too long ago, you didn't want to work, on anything, remember?
I always have issues to work on. You don't need to talk down to me. It makes me not want to hear your point.
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You took your M to the brink of cheating. You want to go do that again the next time you hit a drought, by all means, have at it.
No, I don't want to. But even more than the cheating, I don't want to hit the drought. THAT is the real issue in the M. The drought involves both my H and I. The cheating...I own.
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What I was trying to say to you is through this process, I think you inadvertently stumbled upon a truth about your H, one that maybe he can't even admit... if you don't want to explore, fine.
I don't know what you are referring to here.
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I'm not judging you
I'm calling BS on that. You were especially judging me for the way I talked to BF. Why you feel that is your place, I don't know. What BF and I say to each other is not your concern. You can have your opinion about it. But to say he wouldn't even "nibble" at me? You don't know of which you speak and why you think you do is beyond me. If BF wants to tell me to go take a flying leap, he can do it. You don't need to be his keeper.
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it's precisely because I am D that I am coming in and saying that if you were that close to throwing it all away, it would be very prudent of you to work on things while they are 'good,' cuz by your own words, you aren't real good at it when things aren't going your way. I don't know many of us that are.
Well, that is exactly what I am trying to do by f-ing my H's brains out every night. And trust me, it's not against his will.
