Quote: I can also see that this self discovery ideally should happen before you get into a LTR rather than 20+ years into it, but that is another road.
Isn't that the FCKING truth of the century. Bottle that and sell it, GGB. You'll be a millionaire.
Yeah, but those 20-somethings who would have a use for it don't have the experience to justify paying the price for that little bottle, and even for the few that do, they don't have the disposable income to afford it
Quote:
My immediate impulse is to see what Other Is Not... rather than... Who Am I, and What Do I Want?
OK, so I AM onto something here then. Darned hard at times to refocus on what it is that I am/want instead of the easy path of pursuing what the other is not, ain't it? The light seems to be filtering in a little
The striking thing I've been finding is when I really sit and think about what it is I want, I am finding that often it is not at all what I thought I wanted. I appear to be way more complex than I thought I was (and that isn't meant as a boast). Damn, I should have kept the instruction manual!
