So, last night h calls and asks me if I want him to come over with a couple movies. I say "sure". Then he gets a little pissy and says, "If you want me to come over, why don't you ask me? Why do I have to bring it up? It's like you don't want to spend any time with me." (WHAT??).
So, he comes over and it's pretty late like 11:00, so I told him that we can watch the movies in the bedroom in case I fall asleep (which I always do during movies ). So, we go to the bedroom. He hugs me and tells me that he misses me and that he loves me. On the bed I have a new set of sheets my mom got me for Christmas - 800thread-count. So soft. Well, we "test-drove the sheets". Then, watched the movie kinda cuddling. As soon as the movie was over, h gets up, puts on his clothes, and heads for the door. So, I ask, "are you leaving?" He says, "I'm going to the living room, I'm going to have a snack, then I'm going home." Well, I must have given him a funny look to which he says, "I'm not going to pretend that everythings just fine with us." (again, WHAT??). He then says that he's not ready to work on things until he sees me putting in effort! He also said that his patience is wearing thin, and he doesn't know how much longer he can wait for me to make changes.
Oh, OK! Don't pretend everything's just fine with us! How about DON'T come over and have sex like everythings FINE THEN?! It's all good when sex is involved, other than that...
I'M NOT pretending that things are just fine. Believe me, I live the hell you've given me. Things are NOT just fine! But, don't use me and then tell me that you still can't work on things with me until you can see that I've changed! I'm just angry! I don't want him to come over anymore, and then when he's not here, my mind reels about where he might be...
I'm just rambling, and pissed...
Last edited by ms ladybug; 01/03/0809:14 PM.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
). So, we go to the bedroom. He hugs me and tells me that he misses me and that he loves me. On the bed I have a new set of sheets my mom got me for Christmas - 800thread-count. So soft. Well, we "test-drove the sheets". Then, watched the movie kinda cuddling. As soon as the movie was over, h gets up, puts on his clothes, and heads for the door. So, I ask, "are you leaving?" He says, "I'm going to the living room, I'm going to have a snack, then I'm going home." Well, I must have given him a funny look to which he says, "I'm not going to pretend that everythings just fine with us." (again, WHAT??). He then says that he's not ready to work on things until he sees me putting in effort! He also said that his patience is wearing thin, and he doesn't know how much longer he can wait for me to make changes.
