I'm coming in kinda late but thought I could add some perspective from a woman....

first off ya'll're seeming kinda bitter. Understandable to a point but all women aren't the devil ;\)

That being said....I wanted to comment about the mind reading.

I remember saying things to my ex about the woman he was talking a lot to, or women.........about how it bothered me. I remember asking him to stay home sometimes instead of going out. I remember telling him I would be waiting up if he came home early.

I got tired of asking, begging, pleading and gave up.....

So you say you can't be a mind reader, (which I heard from him too) but there were plenty of signs and things he could have done and it wasn't mind reading. It was all out in the open.

And ya know - I took the time to learn about him - what he'd like, etc. and made that effort. I didn't need to be told that he liked twizzlers....I knew that about him. KWIM?

Not trying to be a bitter brat but......wanted to give you a different perspective.


....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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