Wow. He didn't even send a gift to his daughter on her first Christmas? Sometimes these things still amaze me. He is deep in his fantasy-life. It's good that he's still willing to go to counseling. What are the reasons for him not liking this current counselor. I know my h didn't like our counselor because she called him on things - alot. He wants someone on HIS side who will agree with his choices and his temper. I'd say find another one. We've personally gone through 3 as well and may be looking for #4. As far as his set of keys. Are these keys to your parents house? Does he ever just walk in or does he knock. I guess since his stuff is still there, he should have access if he needs something. But at the time he has everything, he needs to give you back the keys.
DB'ing is tough when every cell in you is crying for him to come back, and you have to act calm. But, it works. And, if nothing else, you will have your dignity and self-respect. That alone is appealing.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
