Boy I'm just really annoyed right now. Corri- I get what you are trying to say, I think. And I understand I have issues to work on in myself. But to imply that two people can't stay M unless they can both be Who They Are is just existential BS. I'm not the one D here, you are. I am only bringing that up to make the point that the way you imply I should go about MY LIFE is to follow these rules of Corri that I just don't think are realistic in the real world. People are not flawless. I was about to cheat on my H. But I love him and he loves me and we are working on it. That's all I can say.
