I've never really understood the holiday either, but I stay up late everynight anyway, so if i'm up, why not celebrate something. hehe. sorry you didn't enjoy it....
sounds like you need to blow something up... it would probably make you feel better.
Just hang in there. If she's anything like me, she'll probably say whatever she needs to (even agree w/ mom that D is a good idea) just to shut her up. Wait it out and see if you get your W back to where she was once family is out of the picture.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown