No need to be stunned. And I'm not sure what you even mean by "kidding". I've said this again and again. I like a wolf/puppy combo. I think most women do. BF is too wolf. He needs to finesse the puppy side to avoid having to throw chairs when his significant other decides (not sursprisingly) that she doesn't want to be in a R with a man who is too wolf. And by too wolf, I mean that he comes across as disinterested or emotionally cut off from her. His ex seemed to feel that way and she found OM. All I'm saying is I'm not surprised she did. I don't mean to offend you BF, I hope it's not coming across that way. I want you to be happy. I think you could be happier in your R if you could adjust a little to the woman you are with. I doubt you will agree with that Corri and that's ok. But I think in Any R/M, you need to make some adjustments if you want it to work. You and BF seem pretty...severe...in your approach and I think it ends up biting you in the azz in the end. Just my opinion.
