Short - I thought my h was having an average affair at first, until, like you, I realised the things he said made no sense
Quote:
I started to look more closely at what he was doing, not listening to what he was saying all the time. When I did listen, I realized so much didn't add up. Wasn't rational, wasn't how he would act if he were rational. I thought he was happy, he wasn't.
I believe that my h was losing his sense of self, and a lot of his actions have been to try and establish himelf as an independent person. A
My h exactly...he has even written me emails to say how sorry he was. Lets see one said...I am sorry that I have issues inside of me that I can't deal with. And what else...I have no sense of who I am or who I was...
THEN GET ALONE AND FIND YOU YOU DORK!! Good grief!! It is like, ok so you left ME to go find YOU and guess who I found BUT MYSELF AGAIN---- and where are you H? It is 1 year since you set off to this "NEW FOUND I HAVE TO FIND ME CRAP..." YOU ARE STILL THE SAME if not worse!!!
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again