Ann, I had problems with my W too regarding domestic support. She constantly complained I did "nothing" and she did "everything" which I found hurtful given I did a ton of house work even when she stayed home full time. She would only clean when she felt like it usually if someone was going to visit yet she would find fault with my quick cleaning which I did out of necessity in the time available so the house wouldn't feel like a pig sty every day. It gets to be more fun when the kids start bouncing off the walls, scattering their toys, writing on furniture, spilling juice, etc.
