Wow!! Your thoughts hit so many of our situations right on the head. When you said living with OW will be tough is so right. My H told me the other day that the situation he was in (which meant OW)probably wasn't going to work that everyone has alot of problems. HE has been living with her. I have always said the real witch that OW is would come out eventually. So did he think I was the only one with problems. That nobody else has any. I think the OW are perfect in their eyes because they don't have all the history that we have with them. They also seem to remember more problems than the good things that happen.
Didn't mean to hijack but Theo once again you hit things right on the head.
Olive, I don't think they are sane. ITs like 2 people in one body. They have so rationality. Its like they don't want to turn loose of you and then they want this other seperate life too. You are right in staying calm and distancing yourself and harding up to all the roller coaster rides they out us on.
HUGS to you I keep saying our H must be twins.... This year is a new year for us to move ahead in our lives. We can control us not them. Let them take the fall....The church will see it one of these days.
