I never took it as name calling. sometimes a square is another way to say very predictable and a open/honest/predictable person.
It is like "What you see is what you get."
Once again, I never even tought about Corri name calling.
Phew. Good. I just wanted to make sure.
As far as WYSIWYG goes... and I'm just asking as a talking point, not jabbing at you... BB is WYSIWYG. Or at least she seems pretty determined to convince you of that...
How does that make you feel? (That's rhetorical... I've read enough of your threads to know how you feel about it).
When I was first learning code... I sometimes used WYSIWYG programs to test myself or learn something new (programs that let me look under the hood at the code). It was a wonderful... security blanket for me...
Until I started getting REALLY GOOD.
And then if I wanted to use a WYSIWYG, just for speed sake... I actually learned how to fool the program, or use work arounds for what it would NOT do. That was kind of cool for awhile.
Then... I got really good. A graduate student of mine and I used to race one another to see who could build solid pages faster... me... just typing code myself, or him, using the flashiest of WYSIWYG programs ever. He'd beat me in raw time... but like I said, the pages had to be solid, which meant they had to work reliably in all the different browsers and platforms...
There's nothing like doing the work right the first time. He knew code, but was so unfamiliar with it due to WYSIWYG usage and monsterous code bloat... most kids who left my tutelage were steadfast hand coders, sworn never again to return to the dark side of letting a program do the thinking for you...
Oh... yeah... my point. Do you think... that sometimes you might use the WYSIWYG description of yourself to escape your own fears and risks? And if that might be the case... is that fair to BB? Not that life is fair, but... you so much seem to want to have a vibrant sex life with your wife... but your actions don't seem to match your words... so are you really WYSIWYG?