I know there is nothing I can do at this point but be calm and distance myself. He will do what he will do...
From a sane person's perspective, wouldn't you be freaked out with how much you long for your wife when you are at ow's house?? Wouldn't you wonder why you are professing your love to your wife and still be certain that you must divorce her??? I know.. I'm trying to rantionalize insanity!