There is something I'm picking up on with you... you come here to complain about your poor sex life with your wife... you build a pretty solid case against her, I might add... we all show up here and give you advice (based on what you've written and our collective experiences)... and then you go on to tell us why you're going to hang in there.
You have a solid habit of living a roller coaster life. It is CLEARLY evident in the last three posts/responses you've made.
I think you are on the wrong thread, honestly. There are all kinds of threads here for marital problems, communication problems, etc.
LACK OF SEX IS THE VERY LEAST OF YOUR PROBLEMS.
You are solidly entrenched, it seems to me, in relationship drama. Not only are you not seemingly perplexed by your wife's constant and consistent 360 behavior... you write about it like a weather report... "it's the weather, what can you do... now if I could just get some sex...."
To heck with marriage counseling at this point... get your own rear end into individual counseling, go to a few DOZEN No More Mr. Nice Guy seminars... something... but DO SOMETHING. With the exception of CeMar, that's what most people do around here... roll up their sleeves and get busy. They vent, sure, but they get busy.
If you don't want to do that, that's cool... I'd just really hate to see this thread become infested with CeMar clones...
