Well how do I make her feel safe??? Shes said before she doesnt feel safe talking to me. Even though I do always try to listen, but when she starts attacking me and I say something back she takes it wrong. I tell her shes beautiful all the time. At least 2-3 times a week. I tell her that I wish she could see through my eyes to know how beautiful I think she is. I dont care if shes put on a few pounds shes still really hot to me. I even think shes MORE attractive with a few extra lbs. I like women curvy and soft, not all hard and boney. What youre saying kinda makes sense, but wow its very counterintuitive. As far as feeling safe though, I have a pretty decent job and make more than enough to cover our bills. She makes about 1/3 of what I do. I pay the rent, electric, phone, cable, my credit cards, her 10K ring, etc. She pays the car insurance and buys groceries and pays her own cell bill. Ive NEVER thrown that kind of stuff up at her because it truly doenst matter to me. I guess the point im trying to make is, how can she not feel safe when she doesnt have to worry about all that?
