Question-Any good basic advice for me?

[Michael Mc C]

Another question-my husband has a weird thing he does. Every time we have a good day, he likes to ruin it at the end.

I agree with H4C on his comments, they do this to justify the insanity of what they are doing. We went pumpkin picking with the kids back in October and had a great day. On the ride home my W was cranky as hell. Wouldn't say 2 words. She was fighting the reality of a good time with the family.

We watched 2 movies the other night (W and I) and had a great conversation afterwards. The next morning she told me that we had to tell the kids what was going on because she would soon be ready to move on.

This is SOP for the WAS I think. If they catch themselves feeling good in the relationship that means that what they have been doing is bad. Goodness knows they can't have that!!