Your wife said that she is a failure at most everything in her life. This probably translates into she does not feel safe, and this means she will not be comfortable with intimacy, and being naked is very intimate. LD people are intimacy avoiders. Worst part is that you may not be the cause of the problem. As women age, their bodies start to have problems. They lose confidence in the way they look. This tranlates to not feeling safe, and this translates to dressing in the closet, and as I have said before, dressing like eskimos when they go to bed.
To go along with this, I have another theory since I started reading NMMNG, that women start to RESENT their husbands when the wife gains weight and the husband does nothing to stop her from gaining weight. Like a woman gains 40 lbs in marriage and the husband STILL wants to ML to her, which kind of makes it seems like us guys will scr#w anything. Like the women wants us to set a boundry on how she maintains herself. Does this make any sense?
