Well guys, so now I have stopped snooping things fall on my lap. Got some evidence of H having a PA with one of his on line girlfriends for real. Confronted him and found out he did it for more than a year.
I finally decided I should talk to someone that is close and called a friend. It was the best I could have done. She could calm me a little bit. Didn't sleep last night.
Can't concentrate on work now. I can take it no more. I've called on separation. He is leaving.
I am devastated because the timing of his PA couldn't be worst. I found out he truly have character flaws. I am now facing all the task list of the next days to break a marriage. I have drawn the line. He does not love me and I don't know if he ever did. I don't want to be with someone who is able to do all that he did.
