Thanks ROOT.. I always appreciate your perspective. I have been doing very well for the past couple of weeks - agreeing with everything (with a few slips here and there). I am going along with it and agreeing that D is the only option for us at this point. I have said that it will be fine.. we will all survive and be happy in the future. He has been crying a lot more lately... can't get over these feelings for me which is making the D even harder.. DUH!
I have also recently told him that he can't be in my life; that it won't work with his new R. I believe after I said that was when he discussed it w/ow and she said she would be fine with him helping me out with stuff (NOT!). I didn't say anything about a new R for me but I'll do that next time it comes up.
Question of the day: If the WAS begins to feel guilt and self-loathing for what they are doing/have done, when do they start realizing that the op has done the same things and is, therefore, not the saint taht they are making them up to be???
