Heres the latest. I came home last night and she was all sad and crying. After a few minutes of asking I finally got her to tell me what was wrong. She said shes just miserable and feels like a failure in work and life and in our relationship. She was crying and really sad. I gave her the pep talk that we have things pretty good, we dont have money problems, we dont have kids that have problems, we arent wrapped up in drug problems, etc. She said that shes sorry shes such a wreck all the time. I told her that weve got some difficulties in our relationship that need work but I believe in her and us and I dont think shes a failure and I realy laid it on thick trying to get her out of the funk. Later in the kitchen she gave me a big hug and said she'd try harder. I just responded with 'that would be great' The rest of the evening was pretty uneventful, we just sat on the couch and watched movies and curled up together. This morning we woke up and got dressed like we always do for work. As she got dressed she went into the closet and got fully dressed with the door shut. Shes been doing it for weeks and did it all through our trip last weekend. I finally asked her "baby, how come you get dressed in the closet with the door shut now?" She flips out on me and says "gaaa will you get off my ass!! I did it one time and youre all over my ass about it!!" I said "im just asking a question, thats all" We didnt really speak the rest of the time we were getting dressed. Maybe im wrong, but to me, being married is not being shy around one another, its a little thing that shows intimacy. She was never shy while we were dating and often walked around the house naked, slept naked, etc. To me its a non-verbal communication that someone is distant. And whats an LRT?
