MLC affairs vs Average Affairs

[still hoping]

I haven't had time to read through this whole thread, so I'm sorry if I'm repeating here. Just wondering:

How many of you would still be standing for your M's if this was 'just' an average affair as opposed to an MLC affair?

For me, I think I would have filed for D by now if it were average affair. But my H has so many MLC symptoms and triggers and what angelica said is so very true about H and the skank he rescued - he sugar-daddied her right out of a terrible job and life.

one of the reasons peole have affairs is to be a rescuer, a shining knight.