Hi tryingman & jmw! I just registered and am making my debut post. It's nice having this "portal" to actively share stuff. I am trying to cope w/ WAW. For the last yr or more I have been the pursuer (always chasing)and while it may have prolonged our marriage, I am seeing it did nothing to strengthen it. So, I am doing giving it all I've got to cease chasing W. It sure seems for me that stopping the chasing is an easier step than GAL. But I guess that is the next step for me. The first of many posts fm me I am sure. May peace & the Lord's blessings fill everyones day.