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ones I've heard over and over...

We just have always clicked

There is no future for us (OW and him)

It is going no where

You're my family and will always be my family

I don't love you any more, can't you get that in your head

I don't want to try

It's too little to late

Don't want to fix it

I have no answers, when I do, you'll be the first to know

You think you know everything

life has always been about you

your chasing me into another womans arms

i can't stand to even look at you

the sex...(with me) means nothing, you know that

(about playing both me and OW) yea but you knew she didn't

It's none of your business where i go or what i do

none of your business what goes on between OW and I

she's done nothing wrong

i just want to be alone

blah blah blah


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D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
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I think everyone should print out a long list of phrases and then create a bingo card. I can just see the confused look on their faces when you shout "Bingo!!" in the middle of a rant. NH

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omg, I LOVE the idea of was bingo. roflmao. seriously. we could make up cards and as our spouses say them, check them off and see who can make bingo first. lol.


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M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
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Wow! Just found this thread and some of these are so familiar. Any of these sound famialiar to you?

"She is probably my best friend" - about EA#1

"We talk at night because she travels so much." - Hmm, that and maybe since her H and I aren't around then.

"We talk on the cells because we are on the same network." - Thanks, it gives me great records of calls.

"I have tried in the past and I don't want to try now." - Still trying to figure out how he tried, I missed that.

"You won't let me leave." - Oh, please stay here so we can continue to make each other misserable.

"I don't see any hope."

"It is you and the kids and then me."

"I'm not confortable doing things as a family."

"Don't you think I want to tell you look good?" - Then do it.

"I want it to mean something." Ok, is that why you keep stringing me along?!

"We don't communicate." Well, maybe we should start trying that.

I have also heard the before mentioned: I haven't been happy for years, The kids have nothing to do w/ it.


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M: 19yrs.
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Sally,

I got that one too- Its harder on him too but... b/c of not seeing the kids all the time..yeah right thats why you had to go away on a "honeymoon" vacation to the islands!!!And then keep your cell off so we wouldnt know. This before I knew of the A.

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"I dont see any hope"

I am getting one right now.


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Originally Posted By: mako_man
"I dont see any hope"

I am getting one right now.


I wish I had a dollar for everytime my H said that one!


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DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
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"I just cannot trust you."

Oh, so I am the one who is untrustworthy? You've only have lied , cheated and ran around on me -- and I am the one who can't be trusted?


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

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Here's one from a DB buddy of mine (I kid you not):

"We were a mated pair of whales in former life."

Here's a common one about the OP:

"We were meant to be together."

About the MLC:

"I am taking care of ME, and as I become more vital, other people around are becoming more vital."




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Here's one from a DB buddy of mine (I kid you not):

"We were a mated pair of whales in former life."

Here's a common one about the OP:

"We were meant to be together."

About the MLC:

"I am taking care of ME, and as I become more vital, other people around are becoming more vital."




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