Turbulence and Connection

[Heartbroken]

First many hugs to you (((((CL)))))! Ouch - your W is a piece of work and I am SO HAPPY YOU STOOD YOUR GROUND. You did not get mean or nasty but just stated your position- but I bet for once you surprised her in not just rolling over and letting her have her way!!!

To me a marriage is a team thing where two work and contribute to the finances, household duties and raising the kids if they are present. Seems she wants to be a stay at home mom but without the kid part - and now it's your fault you two never had kids. She is acting rather spoiled and unappreciative - it would be much harder for her to live on her own with our you there for her support.

You did a great job - it takes two to make a marriage work. It can only be one-sided for so long...

Take care of you!!

HB